For some time we have been or have immersed us in a rather strange theory that sees at the center of the universe a series of hypotheses to stimulate pleasure by meditating around it with simple moves or better with a single finger …., but life on the planet earth has recently taken on the hue of apocalyptic delirium and I have found an infallible cure: meditative masturbation.
We are certainly not joking or wasting time on useless theories, but we just stop and say that she is not a new age bitch. Nor is it an easy escape route. There are many names for this solo manual practice:
- erotic meditation,
- orgasmic meditation
- tantric meditation.
How to do a fingering, basically
The small finger, on the other hand, focuses mainly on two areas of the vagina: labia (large and small), clitoris. First of all, don’t get between her thighs right away, no matter how excited or attracted a girl may be to you, haste doesn’t do any good.
Kiss her, caress her, brush her vagina from over her pants, caressing her with an open hand. First without applying too much pressure, so that he gets used to your touch and begins to want more. At that point she herself will move her pelvis forward and you will have to increase the pressure and the rubbing.
Once in your panties, don’t focus on the lower parts right away. Otherwise, and we women are like that in this, we will feel only objects, as if we were only a vagina for the man.
Once your hand is physically on the vagina, stroke it and continue the movement, slow, rhythmic and with some pressure.
Caress her lips with two fingers, going up and down with a single rhythm (avoid speeding up or slowing down), and above all listen to her body and her panting. Focus on the lips first, stick a finger or even two but not like you’re fucking her!
Instead, move them vertically inside.
The most important part, even if they all are, during female masturbation involves stimulating the clitoris (or clitoris). This is a woman’s sexual organ, it exists only to give her pleasure and has no other purpose.
Clitoral vibrator
Every clitoris is different, there is no single way to stimulate it. A secret: before reaching the clitoris, if you have made her aroused, “dip” your fingers inside her so as to use her natural lubricant.
At this point, the speed with which you massage her clitoris slowly increases, as does the pressure. If you feel that she is enjoying her, that she likes you (and her body will communicate with you or you), follow her directions.
an element that cannot be missing:
To do this you need:
empathy, to understand what she is enjoying in the moment,
communication, to have the courage to ask e
SUMMARY:
1. Create A Certain Expectation (Tease It)
2. Check Your Speed (Don’t Be Too Hasty)
3. Focus on the clitoris (80% of the time)
4. Squeeze the Pelvic Bone and Clitoris
5. Play With Your Clitoris
6. Caress it Going backwards
Finally… What Are The Fingers To Use?
Always the first two (the index and the average). This is because they are longer toe and long toe equals deeper penetration which is what women like. You can also use your thumb on the clit, this works for speed if you can peck at the right angle of the pussy.
A superior orgasm
But let’s not forget meditative masturbation places you at the center of the universe and allows you to find a new dimension of presence of mind, in sexuality and in everyday life.
The principle is simple.
Meditative masturbation falls under the hat of mindful sexuality in which the body-mind connection is applied to sexuality, intimacy and pleasure.
The principle is simple: instead of focusing only on the breath as the basis of the centering and presence exercises, anchor yourself to the feelings of pleasure you feel in the body to find a strong connection between mind and body. Mindful masturbation helps you slow down, detach your mind from worries and return to the present moment. It allows you to have a curious and open attitude towards sensations and try a new masturbative experience. Plus solid solo practice will allow you to experience meditative sex with your partner.
Meditation as well as sexual experimentation can be aided and stimulated through sex toys that re-access not only sexual but also oral and anal pleasure and that touches the deepest meanders of our “inner self” -.What are you waiting for, go to the discovery and make your body vibrate by releasing everything that makes you opaque and blocks your light.
